If you happen to be in the big cities like New York, London, Bangkok, Los Angeles and the like, then there are both expat and local men who get out everyday, either for the breakfast, lunch or dinner. Finding a way to talk always depends on you. Ask for salt or pepper, enquire about the coffee, see if he is a local or a foreigner from another country and so on. At times, if you can stand right behind in the line while ordering something, then having a small talk in one way or the other is possible. Rich men like to eat outside a lot. Some may cook once in a while, but if they are single, then it is always preferable to have a meal outside rather than cook yourself or hire a chef. Going for a meal outside helps to keep active, gives some exercise and helps to socialize as well. If you do get to talking with a older man, make sure to ask about the work, if they are single and set up a date in the near future, may be the next day itself.