So you like connecting with your friends on the phone beyond only the boyfriend? Is it something wrong? Are you not the best girlfriend who only keeps looking at the boyfriend pics on the mobile, social media, updates and what not. If you think that this is what your guy expects out of you in the relationship, more or less, then you are in for a surprise. Alarm bells are ringing. Be ready to listen to the writing on the wall (pun intended). Your boyfriend is possessive.  If he expects all of these, then he could be leaning towards a controlling freak if not more. Does he give you a hard time, everytime he calls up and your phone is busy? What is worse than that? If you are on a date and he slyly checks your phone when you go to the ladies' room or order something. He surely does not have that much trust in you.

Not many women like to stay away from their Insta and the TikToks. If you are posting videos and photos, there will be friends and strangers giving the likes, naughty comments and perhaps expressing their desire in one way or the other. If your boyfriend overreacts and creates a scene, just on a loving comment from a friend of yours, then there is something to be wary off. Have you set the boundaries in your relationship? Is having male friends allowed for you, or it is expected for you to spend the rest of relationship life just with women or if you are not into female friends then just with your BF? Gosh! Is that a situation to be in especially as a Gen Z woman? If that is not a control freak sort of a boyfriend thinking and hoping to be the fiancé then who is. The decision is for you to make.

Going to meetings with the office mates is quite common for the working woman. You may get calls from your boss or the teammate, regarding the work or to get answer to a query, now and then. How is the reaction of your boyfriend in such situations? Does he keep asking about the reasons for the calls? Is he trying to listen to the calls and the conversations? Be concerned if the answer is a Yes. On the other hand, if he tries to keep busy while you are on call, then you are with a man who thinks that the relationship is in the contentful place. The reaction if you get late for the date due to the meeting, that seems to go on and on, can be quite interesting as well. While not all of the times, it is the fault of the boyfriend, if he does get a little impatient out of the desire to meet you, but if he fails to understand your point of view, then that is the real concern.

Your friends behind your back or maybe directly would tell you, that the boyfriend is not letting you live the life that you want. Even before you decide to tie the knot, the demands are taking a toll on the other relationships that you have. If you think that you no longer enjoy the relationship, but are always trying to settle things with him, explaining every little thing, then it is better to move on. There are other understanding men out there, who will be willing to spend time with you. If you do not want to get into a relationship with a known guy, then take the help of a video verified dating website. They give a level of safety that is required when you may be in a vulnerable phase. At times, people around you may know about your breakup or impending breakup and accordingly make plans to take advantage. Knowing who is behind the dating profile through the video introduction keeps you safe. Being in a relationship and having a friend should be a pleasant feeling and not something to be wary of.