Relationships are always like sand in the hand. The more you want to squeeze them, the more they get out of hand. Best is to let them be. Many men and women try to swing the relationship in their favor and this is where they make a mistake. The idea is to ensure that you know what makes your partner happy and then balance it with the things that you like. It is always a delicate balance and at times the tilt will shift that will cause rifts, but the trick is to again get back to try to achieve it. It is not about winning the battles in the relationship but to see how many you lose and still feel happy about it.

It could simple as eating an ice cream on a hot summer night that your guy likes or getting a jar of the favorite pickle of your woman. If you arrange for such moments or let them happen in the flow, then you will always have a reason to remind your partner of the good things that you share.

Give Time to Your Partner's Family

The family functions and get togethers are what bring some fun moments in the life of both the woman and the man. Handling the family is always tough but make sure that you bite the bullet. The enjoyment after the family functions will always be yours to enjoy. 

If you go out for a walk together or enjoy some gym time, then your relationship will always have the spark that is required to keep the flame going. Exercise keeps any underlying ailments at bay. Make sure to ask your partner to work on their body and do the same with yours. It is always a two way road.