This is the first question that you should ask yourself when you want to know what is the right time for marriage? This goes both for the men and the women. Is the question in your mind that what is marriage? Why should I even think about marriage right now? I have so many things to do. The perfect partner is not even in sight right now (talking as per the point of view of a single guy or woman here as for the couple, the question changes altogether and has to be discussed in another topic). 

The thought about marriage is a feeling that comes from deep inside. If you are not thinking about sharing your life with a partner right now or are thinking that there is a lot to achieve either in terms of career or travel or similar, then you are in a different frame of mind. Marriage happens when there are two people who want to share everything in life, the good and the bad.

Many men and women start to think about marriage in terms of age. What to do? There are friends and family right in front of your eyes who are getting engaged or married. Posting photos on the social networks. Videos appearing on the updates all the time. This is the place of honeymoon, the hotel stays, the marriage parties and so on. Every time you see this and you start to think about your own position. Where you are. What you are doing with life. At times the friends are calling up, asking - What about us? Are you getting married any time soon. What is your age right now? Younger than me or older? The questions are never ending. Some are actually funny, while the others send the shivers down your spine.

Have we found the perfect age to marry thought the discussion yet? Not really. There isn't one. It is all in your head. When it is the time to marry you will know. It is not about feeling just lonely or having the sort of thoughts that single men and women can get, it is more sensual than that.

While as human beings we are made to find a life partner or at least a partner for a long time, this may not be true for all of us, but to this date it is still true for most of us. When you get the feeling that you are incomplete in one way or the other. There has to be someone around to share life with. It is about sharing every moment in life and not just some time. It is more than ever a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship can ever be.

If you are Gen Z who is living a great live in relationship and thinks what else marriage could be, then you will be in for a rude awakening. Marriage is a bond that gives the greatest freedom and ties you down in ways that you cannot imagine. If you are ready to experience both, then you can very well call it the time. Many a great lovers have not been able to stand the test of marriage. It is a ride to reckon with. More splashes than a roller coaster ride could ever give you. Good or bad? It is how you take it to be. There is surely nothing to run away from.

If you think that you are not happy with any other relationship that has been around in your life, if the friends do not interest you and the relative talk is just something to listen and forget, then it is time to find a life partner. It is not like a boyfriend or a girlfriend who wants to get back to the personal life, right after it is time. It is a connection that is stronger than that. While you have the life's errands to run, but you will always have in the back of your head, where you have to go back to and to whom. If you want to share such a life with someone, then it is only through a marriage partner, that you can achieve such a feeling. 

It is at the best of times the high that you achieve from the most powerful substance that is around and the rest of the time it becomes the worst of withdrawal symptoms you will be facing. Again, take it only if you can, otherwise be in the phase of life that you are in right now.