The desire can be there if see a guy in your office or while walking in the mall, swimming in the pool to just get on with it, and make it a night. But, it is more nuanced than that. If the sparks fly and you both happen to have a chat that leads to a coffee then you can be bold and put forth the offer to move straight to the final destination and leave the flirting, dating and dinners to the back burner. This does happen but it is a long shot.
The easier way is to use the made for the purpose places such as pubs, clubs, NSA dating apps or if you happen to be in a beach sort of place then the sea side is just the right place to find a single and lonely man walking down the beach and then finding a way caress past the shoulder and get him talking after giving a sly hint of apology. A no strings attached relationship can be had at any age, so both the youngster crowd and the senior singles qualify for it.